For the Love of Books

 

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My dad used to tell us about the bookshelf in his grandma’s living room.  It had glass doors that covered each shelf, he said, and he loved looking at the books his grandmother had behind that glass.  There was a book of poetry that he loved, called “One Hundred and One Famous Poems”.  But his favorite seemed to be the book of ‘fairy tales’, which meant those old stories passed down through generations.  He often told us of Pinocchio and his telltale nose that wouldn’t let him tell falsehoods.

He was a good storyteller, my dad.  Blind from his early 20s, reading was hard work for him, but on rare occasion he would don his special magnifying glasses and read to us.  What a sacrifice of love that was!  In order to see the letters on the page, he had to hold it close enough to nearly touch his nose.  He could see only a few letters at a time that way, so he had to build the words in his mind letter by letter as he came to the end of each syllable.  I cherish those times, because they were rare and because they were such an obvious demonstration of his deep love for us.

At some point, he and my mom bought a set of storybooks for the family called “My Book House”, and Mom would read from them to my brother and me.  From the first two volumes, she read us nursery rhymes and simple stories for small children.  This is where I learned about Humpty Dumpty, Mother Goose, morning routines, the romance of walking under an umbrella, and city life in the late 1940s and early 50s.  From the middle volumes, she read us fairy tales like “Sleeping Beauty”, “Snow White”, “Puss and Boots” and “Jack the Giant Killer”. My dad, of course, liked the fairy tales and would tell them again and again.  I still love reading those stories, preferably to an audience of children, though I rarely have opportunity.  I value those old tales.  They always seem to celebrate common sense and good character, treating the elderly (the “old hag”) with respect (because she usually turned out to be magical), and the fortune of being the youngest of three brothers who has been underappreciated until now.  I like the story of the Princess on the Glass Hill.  My dad liked “The Little Man as Big as Your Thumb with a Mustache Seven Miles Long”.  I was just overwhelmed by the title of that one!

There is something special about the stories we grew up on.  The princess in her castle, asleep until the right prince breaks through the spell and rescues her, or the young boy on the verge of adulthood who leaves home to seek his fortune through dangerous adventures and comes out victorious.  The lessons in the stories apply to us all.  Good character, politeness, hard work and perseverance win the day, no matter who you are, and as a small girl, I owned the lessons of the young brother as surely as I did the romance of the rescued princesses.

Good stories are gateways to magical kingdoms, wild adventures, and the development of grand imaginations.  I want to go back and read those stories again.  It’s never too late for romance and adventure, and being good to old hags with magical powers.

 

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How I Got Here and What I Plan to Do About it

I had a blog once.  I did.  But life got busy and eventually, after I hadn’t posted in approximately forever, it was closed down by invisible forces, and now it has become a read-only blog.  So I’m starting over.  New blog, new posts.

The old blog was a loosely constructed documentation of my days and nights, and the things life was teaching me.   It was where I talked about family, and seasons, and God, and gratitude.  It was satisfying to write about it all.  So that’s where I’ll start again, and we’ll see how it evolves from there.   I like the idea of meandering through my days, noticing things as they pique my interest, finding the humor,  celebrating the joys, respecting the hardships – just relishing the moments – and learning from it all.

Join me if you like.  But regardless, I wish you joy in your journey.  And wisdom.

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So I’m sitting out here in the warm night, loving it. The day is mostly done, and wonderful things happened, and sad news arrived, and some good things were accomplished, and other things were not. And I am realizing that this is life. Life isn’t what is going to happen when I get ready, or when certain things have been accomplished. Life isn’t going to start in earnest after that one thing happens first. Life is all of it. And we all get bits of beauty and luscious wonder in our lives, and we all get crap, and sadness, and disappointment, and stupid mistakes in our lives. It’s all part of the deal and it’s all gonna be what it is. So we might just as well do the days — every one of them — with everything we are made of because there’s no sense saving ourselves up for the time when life will start. It’s started, with or without us. and if we don’t get on board, we’re likely to miss it!

So maybe I’ll work on less bemoaning what is not just right, and take it all in, even the things that are not all that great. The days are full of gifts and I can celebrate them. They are also full of mosquitos and pain and death and loss. It’s all part of the tapestry of life. And it’s good to celebrate the good and lament the bad accordingly — richly, deeply, unapologetically, each in its turn. It’s all life, and I want to live every inch of it.
I said I was loving this warm humid night, right? Well, the bugs have appeared in the cool of the evening and these mosquitos are biting fierce. Tiny flies are being drawn to the light of my screen. So I am going inside.

Well, Here’s a New Blog

 

The old blog is dead, long live the new blog.

It’s late autumn over at our place.   The leaves have all fallen and now they lie wet and crushed on the ground, run over by too many tires.  The trees stand naked and forlorn with empty branches reaching for sullen skies, and frankly the whole place just looks exhausted.  If it had a voice, it would probably just moan sadly.   It’s the season.

I’m realizing there is so much to learn in this dark season, if I can muster the energy and receptivity for learning.   We’ll see how it goes.